Don't chase love

 In order to see yourself happy you need

to let go of the idea that only love can

make you happy, a man is a key to your

happiness. If even it was true there would

have been more happy couples in the

world.

I know it gets lonely at times, but there is

strength in finding solitude. Feeling

lonely is a sign that you still feel things.

Even though you think you are dying

inside, it is not true.

Stop chasing love. Love shouldn’t be

chased it should come to you. It’s better

to wait then to go after things that don’t

mean anything, which makes you nothing

but desperate. Stop telling yourself that

you are not lovable. Don’t get into an

unnamed relationship thinking they can

complete you. Don’t do that to yourself.

All that sex you have to feel something is

not going to bring love to you, it is going

to shatter you in ways you never

imagined.

Stop putting so much faith in that person

that knows what you want but can’t give

you that. Stop chasing him for the love he

can never offer you. Stop giving him parts

of you that he doesn’t care to

acknowledge. I know it’s hard not to be

cared about; I know you want to be loved

back. Each time you offer yourself to him

he is not capable of offering the same to

you. So stop offering yourself.

Let me tell you what you actually

deserve. Everything! You deserve

everything you ever wanted. You are

lovable and you are capable of loving

back. Think about the lonely nights you

spent wallowing for love and crying over

thinking you are going to end up alone.

It is time now that you stop chasing love,

it is the time that you make yourself great

first, do justice to yourself and love

yourself first. You will move on from the

old wounds and you will find happiness.

Be patient and explore yourself and the

world.

Stop chasing love and start living your

life. Go travel, go learn something. Stare

at the moon for long hours and do

nothing. Find a passion, write, Cook good

food, eat good food, do what makes you

happy. Build something today so that

tomorrow you can cherish it. Let it be the

symbol of your strength.

Stop cashing love and start living life

because when you stop the chase love

will stop running.